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Cameroonian actress, entrepreneur and philanthropist, Stephanie Tum, has taken to
her Facebook account to share a powerful message which revolves around ”Time and Comparison”.
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According to her, the message is to encourage people to stop comparing
themselves to others and know that, there is time for everything.
She wrote:
”In January, Omotola Jalade shared on her IG that she was grateful that at 40, her last child is already in the University.
Remember she has four kids and she married quite early.
Funke Akindele (Jenifa) congratulated her on the post.
Funke is 41 and just had her first babies in December of last year.
Now, if you try to compare these two women, you’d fail at it because they are both accomplished.
Will you say Funke is unfortunate for just having her first babies at 41 while Omotola’s last child is already in Uni?
My point? Stop comparing yourself with others! Your life journey isn’t the same with anyone, irrespective of societal expectations.
Not everyone will get married in their twenties, not every couple will have a baby nine months into marriage,
not everyone will become a millionaire in their thirties, some people will get their
dream jobs at 40, it doesn’t mean they’ve failed. Some will become CEOs at 55.
Please learn to focus on your life. I know it’s a difficult thing to do in this era of social media where everyone seems to be doing
well in life except you. Don’t compare your life journey with others, not even your classmates.
There are only CLASSMATES, there are no LIFEMATES. You’re your only mate in life.
Whenever you’re tempted to compare yourself with others (which makes you feel
pressured and sad), come back to this post and digest every word”.
MGP readers, what are your thoughts about her message?
